Welcomed or not...

I've been racking my brain today about sending an email to someone who's father had pasted away. Why am I dwelling on it? Because this person and I had a huge falling out about 3 summers ago and I'm sure if they saw me on the side of the road dying they would just pass right by. I don't even know how I would feel if that scenario was reversed in all honestly. This person even saw my parents just recently along with their own parents and didn't even acknowledge their presence. So I wonder if I should break this silence and show a small sign of maturity and compassion in their time of need or just let it go?

Has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? What would you do or have you done?

well I've decided that I'm

well I've decided that I'm going to just send her a quick email. I just looked at her myspace page and she has fucking pictures of herself with her boyfriend from the fucking funeral! Who the fuck has pictures of themselves taken at a funeral and who the fuck would share those with the fucking world?! That's like either a plea of, "Look at me! Look at me! Crying at my daddy's funeral!" or she's just that self-centered that she thinks she looks so great in the pictures that she wants to show them off. Fucking bitch!

when someone has a grudge

when someone has a grudge like this it's hard to be sure that they wont warp what you do/say in order to make you fit their image of you. even if you are trying to make ammends. but seeing as there is already a rift between you you have nothing to loose I say send off some mail it cant hurt it could only help.